Vogue raises the big question: Is having a boyfriend now embarrassing? Come see Gen Z’s take on this latest trend!

In the past, having a boyfriend was an accomplishment that made you proud. But in this era, especially among Generation Z, status in a relationship can this really seem normal or a little embarrassing? This is what makes the discussion interesting. articleVogue titled “Is having a boyfriend embarrassing now?” » which went viral on social media. The article highlights that the younger generation is now beginning to question the meaning of romantic relationships: is it true that love must still be announced, or does it have more value when it is experienced in secret?

Interestingly, within the FD editorial team itself, many Gen Zers also have unique opinions on relationships. I also wonder what the meaning of this Vogue article is. relate for them? To find out the answer, I also asked several questions related to the discussion in the article. If you are curious about their answers, you can read this article!

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Is having a boyfriend always an achievement or is it just normal?

A few years ago, having a girlfriend was often considered milestone which must be announced to the world, from update status until soft launch on Instagram. But now the mood has changed. Many view relationships as a personal matter and no longer as an achievement that must be publicly validated. When I asked Gen Z friends on the FD editorial team, they agreed: Relationships are not about status, but about connection and comfort built with someone.

Sekar: In my opinion, at 25, feeling like you have a boyfriend is not an accomplishment. Maybe for some people yes and it’s good. But in my opinion, have a great partner who can truly achieve all aspects of our life can only be considered an accomplishment, especially in today’s situation where it is really difficult to find people like that.

Salma: Honestly, from the beginning, I never thought that having a boyfriend was an accomplishment. I think people today don’t think it’s something that important, because having a boyfriend is more important. part of life ajaThis is not an achievement to be proud of. But if you want to be proud, it doesn’t matter, it depends on each person.

Alsha: Having a boyfriend is not a necessity, but a choice. Because having a boyfriend is not an accomplishment, but rather a decision to share your life or you can also choose to have fun first by being Single.

Cloudya: From what I see around me, having a boyfriend is no longer an accomplishment, but a way to channel love and feel loved. As an adult, relationships respondent and have support system it’s very important. So if it’s considered an achievement, that’s normal. Having a girlfriend is good, but not having one is also good. It doesn’t define who you are!»

From this conversation, it was very clear that for many Gen Zers, having a boyfriend is no longer seen as self-validating. Relationships are now seen more as a space to grow together or even choosing to grow alone is still valid.

If you have a relationship, you prefer it keep it private or show it?

In the past, couples were often used as required content food Or history Instagram, now many people are starting to think twice before posting photos with their girlfriends. Either because they want to maintain their privacy or because they are afraid of being hit. evil eyeor you just don’t feel the need to share it with the public, that’s okay. In an age where the lines between personal life and social media are increasingly thin, the way a person expresses their relationships is also increasingly diverse. When I asked the FD editorial team about this, the response was very interesting:

Sekar: Personally, I prefer to share stories relationship– I adapt the portion. SO, not too privatebecause I think we also need to tell happy storiesshareBut don’t share too much Also.

Salma: I am that type of person keep private anyway. You can even count my posts about couples on your fingers, even though it’s been years relationship-her. I usually do more share THE inner circle But not on social networks where there are a lot of people.

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Alsha: I like to show off relationships, but only in moderation. Because for me, what’s important is that the relationship is real, not just update on social networks. »

Cloudya: To a certain extentI like to post and share our stories with everyone, but i also want to keep it private. More aware just and think about what is right to doshare and what others may not need to know. But as a Gen Z, I have more accounts private and it contains your closest friends. If it’s because of that, I’m more oversharing question relationship.

This is what the Editorial FD team thinks why many feel cooler and freer when Single

Who has not heard the phrase, “The single life is the best life”? It seems like a lot of people have started recently to kiss life Single as a time to focus on yourself, explore new things or just enjoy the freedom without having to compromise with anyone. This doesn’t mean being anti-relationships, but rather understanding that happiness doesn’t always come from having a partner. So when I asked Gen Z friends of the FD editorial team about this, it turned out that many felt the same way:

Sekar: It could be those who Single feeling like you have a “choice” without having any connection or thinking about other people in that choice. Because it cannot be denied that commitment requires a great compromise.

Salma: Maybe when Single We believe we can do everything ourselves without the help of a partner. So like you can do anything without a boyfriend! I also feel like when I don’t have a partner, there are actually more things to explore. But of course every relationship is different, it can’t be knocked flat either.

Alsha: The problem for me is again right now Single I don’t depend on anyone, I feel the most free. Stronger, more direction-aware and more self-aware.

Cloudya: For me personally, it’s the concept that you can finally enjoy and get to know yourself fully! Sometimes relationships can be possessive or have quite restrictive rules, even if they are not necessarily comfortable for both parties. In the meantime Singlethe focus is more on ourselves, knowing what we want, without having to consider our interests “significant other”. It’s like, it’s you!

From all the answers above, you could say that Gen Z has a much different perspective. based on relationships. Having a boyfriend is no longer a symbol of status or great achievement, but rather a personal choice that comes from comfort and a healthy connection. They are also more aware When posting relationships on social media, don’t be against posting, but know the boundaries between sharing and maintaining privacy.

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And do a lot of it, phase Single In fact, it is the best time to get to know yourself and feel complete freedom without having to compromise. So, if the Vogue article raises questions “Is having a boyfriend embarrassing?” »For Team FD’s Gen Z, the answer may not be whether or not you’re self-conscious, but how relationships, and even loneliness, can be a reflection of maturity and deeper self-understanding.

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